Vision pro not pairing Macbook with pro

I'm having trouble pairing my apple vision pro to my macbook pro M3, my macbook pro is on sonoma 14.6 and i have tested pairing a visionOS1.2 and 2.0 vision pro but it still doesn't work, i have a mac mini that pairs and connects fine to the headsets and those are the steps i tried to do on vision pro and macbook pro to pair them together until now but with no success :

On the same windows wifi hotspot

On the same iPhone hotspot 

On an other wifi hotspot

Tried to clear remote devices, still not recognized

tried to turn off and turn on developper mode still nothing 

tried to reset network parameters 

tried to restart headset 

tried to restart Xcode 

tried to restart mac 

just after restart the headset showed up and i clicked pair and typed in the code but then the headset was still in "disconnected" and couldn't connect to mac

tried to restart mac and headset 

tried to rename headset 

tried to switch mac 

tried 1 headset on at a time

tried to clean build folder 

deleted contents of ~/Library/Developer/Xcode/DerivedData

tried sudo defaults write "/Library/Preferences/com.apple.mDNSResponder.plist NoMulticastAdvertisements" -bool true

tried to deactivate the firewall