I cannot restore my Ipad backup

Hello community, I reset my ipad yesterday because it was heavily lagging and sometimes even crashing (i have done that several times before so I don't understand what makes it so problematic this time). Now, I wanted to restore a backup that I stored on my laptop and get the error "das Ipad konnte nicht wiederhergestellt werden, da die Verbindung zum Ipad getrennt wurde" (Ipad couldn't be restored because the connection to the Ipad got interrupted) from Itunes. I tried reconnecting it, then it shows me Error 0xE00000A and when i put my Ipad into recovery mode it says that my Ipad has to be either updated or recovered, but freezes when i try to do do one of the options. I also tried tools like 3utools and ibackupbot, which also usually work when i try to do backups/restore them to my Idevices, strangely neither one of them works either. I even switched cable and the Pc thats doing the setup, but still, no success. I hope anyone can help me with this issue, my device's specs are: Ipad 9th generation 256gb wifi (A2602), IOS 18.5 beta (switched back to 18.4 for now). Thank you in advance